I think it does help that I have a sexy body when men speak to me but I also have many other interests and qualities. But I’m not one of those people who thinks all men are only interested in sex, some of them can be interested in brainy women too and may want to get to know them. People who book sexy ladies like me from cheap outcall escorts only like us for our vixen body.
So yes, having a sexy body helps and it can make it easier for me but on the other hand not all men are so shallow that they only talk to you because you’re attractive. The reason why I say it helps more than it hurts is because it’s not necessarily something you can change; you can’t decide to be smarter or taller. Having a good body is the easiest thing for men to notice about women, so if thats what they look at it makes sense that they see that as the first thing about you.
Some of them are just interested in sex, in which case your body doesn’t matter as long as you have one. If all they care about is your body then yes, of course only having that will help. Sex is the most basic of needs, it doesn’t require any smartness or intelligence. If a man only wants to have sex with you then of course he’s only going to talk to you if your body is sexy.
But there are also men who want more than just sex and maybe they find more than just looks attractive, maybe they like your eyes or the way you smile or your sense of humor. So yea, talking to those types of guys won’t be dependent on your body as much and may happen even if you’re not attractive in the slightest (although that obviously would be hard).
I’m not saying that sexy women can’t get a date and an attractive woman has every man jumping through hoops for her. I’m saying that having a sexy body can sometimes help but it’s not everything. Other qualities are also important and if you have all of them, then maybe you still won’t get every man talking to you. Just be with a guy because he’s the one for you, not because he’s only interested in sex. If your dates don’t turn into anything else then that shouldn’t bother you too much, just see him as a great friend first and make sure your feelings are mutual before even thinking about dating him.
If you think of it like that then I’m guessing most people wouldn’t mind being called shallow or superficial just because they’re only interested in your looks and body. It’s not like it’s a bad thing that women don’t care about those things, it’s just how life works. If a man doesn’t find you attractive he won’t talk to you no matter what and if he finds you attractive but doesn’t want to date you then he won’t talk to you either.
For some men, having a sexy body is enough because they just want to get laid and sex is the main thing they want out of that. I’m not saying I’m better than men who only think about sex, it’s just the way I am attuned to the world around me and understand how men think more easily than most women do.